Why is it taboo to date someone a lot older than you,when in history people married at 13? Back in the middle ages, and even the victorian era girls were to be married at 13 years old, and they would marry men who were 20+. If someone does that today, its considered a taboo and pedophilia.
Why is this? and when did this subject change?
Back then there weren't pedophiles, young virgin girls were considered more desirable and if a woman wasn't married sometimes by the age of 17 they were sometimes shunned. The men were older because they were more mature.
Is pedophilia a result of conservative views and the need to make everything sexual? |
| Women were property in those times and cultures. They are not property any more. |
Why is it wrong for a grown man/woman to sleep with a mature 16 or 17 year old? It was common in past cultures for a girl to get married at 14 to an older man. Why is it so taboo today for someone who is 16 or 17 who is fully developed and mature to have sex with someone older? |
| just because of the statetory rape laws, and times have changed and now people don't get the "adult" role until they are much older, and it would be more stressful now for the teen girls bc it's not such a common thing these days. If the girl is over 18 or 21, or whatever age it is for those statetory rape laws, then I don't really see a problem. |
Anybody know when the big MILF era took off. Mature women just seem to supercharge my libido.? I don't know what it is, I'm 19 and when I think about MILFS its like i'm in la la land lol. Anybody know of some great mature movies like the taboo series with Kay Parker. She is in my top 5 of all time stars |
| When the first American Pie movie came out! Everyone wanted to be like the one guy. |
Need some qoutes to be twisted sexually - Mature? I am writing a erotic novel in which an FBI agent is pursuing a guy molester who also happens to be a priest. He also has other taboos (adultry, animal, bi, etc) I'd like some religious qoutes (bible or people) can be twisted to his viewpoint. For example, in one of my previous posts, some one gave the qoute "Give me the guyren until they are seven and anyone may have them afterwards." by St. Francis Xavier. Can you come up with others? |
| "suffer not the little guyren to come on to me" |
Why a mature male is interested/tempted in starring at sexy/bikini/without clothes shots of mature females? Can the temtation be stopped,or minimised or controlled?How can it be done?Please clear it in detail. Does it happens with a male only uptill marriage. Does the same holds true for the members of opposite sex also?Why?Please describe it in detail?
Please answer this psyco true habbit although it may be taboo.?
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are you addicted to porn? If so, that is another case.
But for the average adult, it is stimulating to see a woman/man without clothing or in bikini as it soothes natural sexual curiousity.
IMO. |
Why is sex between young teens taboo? seriously, theres all these people crying out against it, but if two guys want to experiment, why cant they?
just a few hundred years ago it was fine for a 20 year old to marry a 13 year old girl (look at romeo and juliet)
are people that ignorant that they think all people are the same?? if 2 guys are a bit more mature than others, why not let them do it? you people just cause them more harm by saying "its illegal" than by teaching safe sex. |
I'm replying mostly to Dani
Romeo and Juliet was real, Shakespeare based his play on a true story. He often did not completely make up his plays, his strengths was to take something that was partially true and convey it in a manner, which was well extraordinary.
And about your question, if the public did not frown upon sex between teenagers, there would be no limit set. Everyone matures at their own time at if there was not this rule, some younger teens would be forced into sex when really not wishing to do it (peer pressure). This could have long term repercussions. But at a legal age, everyone has matured, hence no long term damage is likely to occur. |
Please answer this psyco true habbit although it may be taboo.? Why a mature male is interested/tempted in starring at sexy/bikini/without clothes shots/images of mature females.????????Can the temtation be stopped,or minimised or controlled?How can it be done?Please clear it in detail. Does it happens with a male only uptill marriage. Does the same holds true for the members of opposite sex also?Why?Please describe it in detail?
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ITS A KIND OF ATTRACTION,nature(god) has created a universal rule,opposite things(both in magnet & also in human) attract each other.but this temptation cud be stopped in 2 ways,the first way is bad for u & may ruin ur life & the 2nd is best
1)watch until u get bored,bcas everything in this world become boring if u lve it too much
2)by doing mediation u cud develop self contro,since it is a bad thought it cud be cleared only by another good thought
it happens for female also,bcas of univrsal rule i mentioned,but not for all men & women it happen
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Is it possible for two twin brothers to fall in love with each other? I know this is an extreme taboo, but I only want to see mature and intelligible responses to this. It's a serious question. |
| .....Dear laos_cambo, of course it would be possible. I don't see how anyone could say that it would not be possible. :-) |
How come many students become attracted to their teachers? Taboo subject but this year (junior) I've noticed that one or two of my male teachers are pretty cute, no big deal, so I'm thinking maybe it's because they are mature, helpful and or knowledgeable? I was just thinking why so many students often become attracted to their teachers in one way or...another :)
What are your thoughts? |
| Forbidden Fruit |